Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Fall Walk...

We're slowly slipping into Fall here in Buffalo, and Lily dressed the part today for quick walk down the street.  It's rained off and on today and blown the leaves around.  Lily decided that she needed an umbrella and boots to go walking in.  She looks like the Morton's Salt Girl...

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Out to breakfast at our favorite place!

Monday, September 27, 2010

Tonight's snack...

Lily 2.0

The new improved Lily has enjoyed two days at home and is swiftly returning to the same old Lily we had before all of this started. Neurologically, the right side is a little weak, and there is a significant pocket of Spinal Fluid between her skin and scalp...but the doctors are just watching it for the moment and we're hoping for no leaks--which is what put us back in the hospital after the last surgery.


We don't see the doc again for a month, unless there are complications and for the moment, no talk of chemo or radiation. We'll need to have another CT scan and follow MRI's for years to make sure there is no growth or recurrence. We may have to do a little physical therapy if the weakness doesn't improve. The doctors and staff at Children's Hospital were absolutely wonderful and took very good care of ALL of us. We're grateful to be at this point in the journey, and over the major hump, even if we have years of repercussions to deal with. Hopefully, they'll be minimal, especially in relation to seizure disorders or developmental delays, but we're thankful that everything has gone the way it has.

Check out Lily's new fairy outfit from our friend, Barb DiTondo, complete with a new Princess crown from Mrs. Hardt's 7th grade class!


We had some friends visit today...Jan and Sarah. Lily showed them the iPad and how to work all of the different applications. I think Lily sold two iPads--I wonder if Apple will give us a kickback? It was nice to see Jan and Sarah - and I'll get to see them again when I go back to work next week! Thanks for the goodies, Jan and Sarah!


We also got Princess presents in the mail from our friend Erin in Virginia. Lily loved them and posed with her card! Thank you Erin!



Sunday, September 26, 2010

Local School participates in Princess Day!

A local school participated in Princess Day last Friday by making crowns, wands, and masks!  They sent the creations to Lily and we made a "Digital Card" showcasing the creations and Lily getting them!  Thank you! Thank you! Thank you to Mrs. Hardt's Classes - you really made Lily feel like a Princess!

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Silly Lily!


Our friend Katie wrote a story about Lily on her blog. You can click on any part of this message to see it! Thank you Katie--that was sweet!

-Mike, Liz, and Silly Lily

*Also, she drew this picture in honor of Lily with a big Cheeto in her mouth--just like when we came home from the hospital last time! (Thanks, Katie, you're awesome!)

Thank you videos!

Home and snuggling...

Friday, September 24, 2010

Princess Ribbon from our friend Anita!

Princess Lily got an official Princess ribbon in the mail today from our friends Anita and Jeff Parker! Thanks Parker family!

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Playing Candy Land!

Friday 9/24 Update

Things seem to be moving along.  Slowly, but moving.  We had originally thought we might be out of the hospital today, but some fluid has collected on Lily's Skull and her brain so they are watching that.  We could go home as early as tomorrow, but Sunday is looking a little more likely.

Physically, she's doing great. She's slept a lot today, but played all day yesterday with no nap.  She's eating potato chips and chocolate chip muffins and cheerios.  

The doctor confirmed for us today that the tumor was what they thought it was: pilocytic astrocytoma.  We don't yet if chemo is an option or if they are going to just watch it.  They told us a few weeks ago that chemo wasn't a great option for this type of tumor, so we will probably just watch the tumor site through frequent MRI's.  We are still trying to stay in the now and play the "what if" game, but things are definitely in a better place than they were a month ago.  At least now, we've got answers and action.

I'd like to write more, but I've been challenged to a game of air hockey, so I must vamoose!

-Mike, Liz and Lily

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Thursday, September 23, 2010

Vecta Relaxation Machine

The hospital has a new VECTA relaxation machine that plays music, blows bubbles, and changes colors.  Lily has been enjoying it and relaxing to its sights and sounds.  This is great for her being in the hospital, but I can't help but wonder how awesome this would be in a Special Education classroom, especially with some of the more severely disabled children.  It's very comforting just to sit and watch...


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Dog Therapy and Lady Gaga Therapy!

This morning, the therapist from Miracle Movements came to work with Lily and another kid.  They played tambourines and did stretches and sang songs, and played Lady Gaga the entire time.  Lily LOVED it!  We also had a visit from Kipling, the Therapy Dog.  Lily wasn't sure about him, but he sure was interested in her.  We've also been enjoying cookies from our friends Nicole and Joe in Ohio.  Lily's been eating the chocolate chip cookies and Kipling was really wanting one too!

She's watching videos today and resting now.  We've had a pretty good last 24 hours and will hopefully get out of the hospital in the next few days!  Thanks again to everyone for their continued prayers and support!  We appreciate it!

-Mike, Liz, and ESPECIALLY LILY!

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Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Already in the game room...

In a regular room...

We are finally out of ICU! We will still be in the hospital for several days, but things should be less hectic and less loud in a regular room!

Sent from my iPad

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Happy Birthday, Paw!

Today is Paw Fisher's birthday!  Happy Birthday, Paw!

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Skyping with Mrs. Todd in Kannapolis!

Mrs. Todd's class at Fred L. Wilson Elementary School made Lily a
"Digital Get Well Card!" Lily had never gotten a Digital Get Well
card like that before and was SO excited!

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you to Mrs. Todd's class!


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Monday, September 20, 2010

Not much going on...

Lily got her drain out today and had a CT scan.  The scan looked good and we may leave intensive care tomorrow.

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Sunday, September 19, 2010

Playing on the ipad.

Sunday Afternoon Update...

Lily's had a pretty good morning and slept well last night.  No more seizures!  They are changing the seizure meds and she's going to be on them for awhile, just in case.  She is still favoring her left side, but she is starting to have a little more control over right-sided things...particularly being able to gaze/look toward the right.

She had a little broth and some noodles today and has had some apple juice to drink. She's been talking a little, mainly saying that she "wants her mommy" and for us to "stop doing that."  The doctor wanted her to sit up today for a few minutes, so the nurse and I helped Lily into a chair and she sat in it for about 20 minutes.  She watched a little bit of Diego but really wasn't all that "with it."  She tolerated what we did, but then wanted to get back in bed and told us she was too tired to sit in the chair!  She's still very groggy...

The doctor told us this morning that the MRI is showing a pretty successful surgery.  Liz and I are cautiously optimistic, but know that we aren't out of the woods yet.  He thinks they were able to get 99% of the tumor, though the MRI is showing the tiniest little piece of something, which they said could be a little piece of the tumor or could be a piece of tissue that will resolve itself over time.  Whatever it is, it is being watched.  We don't know about chemo or next steps in treatment, but we'll know more when the pathology report comes back.  For now, she will be on seizure meds for awhile and her drainage tube is due to come out tomorrow.  We will probably be in ICU for a couple more days.  The surgery was a little more invasive than we thought it was going to be, so she has to be watched a little closer, but so far, things seem to be progressing well, and the doctor said that her responses are pretty normal after this type of surgery.

We will continue to update as we can and please know that we are so grateful for your prayers and support!  It may take us awhile to get back to the way things were, but we're hoping that that is the direction we're heading in!

-Mike and Liz and Lily

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Saturday, September 18, 2010

A Little More With It

Lily is a little more with it tonight. She has slept most of the day but that is due to surgery in combination with anti-seizure drugs and more anesthesia with the MRI this afternoon.  We'll be in ICU for at least another day, maybe two. For now, they are watching all action on her right side to make sure it is symmetrical with the left. She has talked a little tonight, asking for strawberries and apple juice.

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Friday, September 17, 2010

After Surgery Update:

We are in the ICU with Lily. So far, so good. Surgery was long but doctor thought it went well. We'll know more after MRI tomorrow and pathology report next week. Her vital signs are good and she's sleeping. Thank you again for all the support and prayers!!!

Mid-day report...

We got here this morning early, but Lily didn't need another MRI, so we just waited. She went in about 11:00 and they've been updating us every couple of hours. She's stable and doing well so far, but we don't really know a lot yet. It could be several more hours before they are done. We'll update more when we know more...

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Thursday, September 16, 2010

Lily's Hospital Playlist!

These are Lily's favorite songs and what she'll be listening to while we're in the hospital. She loves her princess music and right now is loving Lady Gaga's "Monster" and "Telephone," as well as the Black Eyed Peas, "Boom Boom Pow."  If you'd like, add your own favorites in the comments section, and we'll add some new songs for her to listen to while she's recuperating!

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Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Friday is "Princess Day!"




I’m declaring Friday to be “Princess Day.” Lily LOVES princesses: dressing like them, watching them on television, and telling us everything about them!

I’m proposing that you live by the Princess Code on Friday while we wait to see what happens with our Princess Lily during and after her surgery.

Consider doing one or more of the following!

· Be Strong! Princesses are strong and can fend for themselves!
· Be Beautiful! Princesses are confident and pretty because they believe they are pretty, not because someone told them that they are!
· Be Gracious! Princesses are appreciative of the gifts of others.
· Be Yourself! Princesses know who they are!
· Be Happy! Princesses are the role models for happiness so that they can inspire others to be happy too!
· Be Kind! Princesses do nice things for others for no other reason than it’s nice to do them!
· Be a Dreamer! Princesses are the cornerstones of fairy tales, and as such are able to make their dreams come true. Take a step toward making your own dreams come true!
· Be Fun! Princesses like to laugh. Lily’s favorite thing is laughing and playing jokes…do the same for those around you!
· Be Loving! Princesses love their families and their worlds. Show the ones you love how much you care!

Lily is all of these things, and she is loved because of them.

Lily is our Princess, on Friday and every day after!


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A Little Frustration, A Little Fear, and A Little Relief

We really aren't sure what to feel at the moment, but it's a combination of frustration, fear, relief, and a little numbness too.


Last week, Lily's follow up CT scan showed some irregularities with the tumor, and she had to have another MRI today. The MRI showed that the tumor had grown 10-20% in just the last month.


While the doctor still believes that it is a benign tumor, he is not going to wait before doing something else. We are having surgery on Friday to try and remove as much of the tumor as possible. If he gets it all, we're good to go, if there's some left, then we have to go through chemo as well.


The bigger issue right now is that they have to go through healthy brain tissue to get to the mass, so there is a chance that we will also be dealing with some sort of damage. He thinks that this could be minimal, but because of her age, she will most likely grow into new pathways to cover for anything that gets damaged during the surgery.


While we're scared about the surgery, we're also a little relieved that they are planning to go ahead and do something about it. The surgery on Friday will last around six hours.

It was very frustrating thinking we would just have to live with this monster sitting in her head--never knowing when this might happen. We kind of feel like we're better prepared to deal with it right now, in this moment, versus a surprise years down the road.


Our doctor is a capable, compassionate, and Christian man, and we trust him to do the best he can.


We continue to ask for your prayers, and know that we appreciate every single one. We'll update more on Friday or Saturday morning...but between now and then, we are going to be the most normal folks you've ever seen!


-Mike and Liz and Lily

Monday, September 13, 2010

Lily's iPad Art...

We've been playing with several drawing apps.  Lily loves DRAW and DOODLE BUDDY and created these "masterpieces" on the iPad.  I'm amazed at what this thing does--everybody in our family enjoys it.  We just leave it out on the ottoman and it's always in someone's hands!

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Sushi and Chinese food at Wegmans!

Lily sings her babies to sleep...

New pics of Lily...

Here are some new pics of Lily. She has been a real ham lately.

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Wednesday, September 08, 2010

Science museum!

We went to the Buffalo Science museum today.  Lily wanted to see the 3 d movie about dinosaurs.  We also saw the robot dinosaur exhibit.  All of their dinosaurs had facebook pages.  Lily played with each of the dinosaurs' profiles on the computer.  She also wanted a picture with the stuffed buffalo, which we did.

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Saturday, September 04, 2010

Friday, September 03, 2010

Prayer Map

Some new pics...

Just a few of this week's many moods of Lily.  We've had a pretty good week. Next week we have another CT scan and a doctor's appointment.  As long as nothing has changed, we just continue waiting until the next MRI in November.



A brand new blanket from our new friend Kathy in Indiana! Thanks Kathy! 




Lily's new stickers from our friend Connie, which ended up immediately on her stuffed rhino!




More rhino action on the iPad. (A Rhinoceros is Lily's favorite animal!)




In her new dress from Nana TT down South!




Just a quick snapshot heading into WalMart!




A little chocolate leftover on her mouth...

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