Saturday, April 02, 2011

Lily April Update:

Lily saw her doctors this week as a follow up to the last MRI.  (Which we had previously posted about briefly...)

The neurologist, neurosurgeon, and oncologist all work together and we get to see them all at once at these appointments.  They are an incredible collaborative team!

They re-affirmed what the surgeon told us just after the MRI, that it looked, in his words, "WONDERFUL."  The area where the tumor was removed was still pulling in contrast, but he said that it looked better than before.  The small piece of whatever is still there seems to have shrunk significantly and the surgeon indicated that it is most likely just scar tissue.

The fluid on her scalp has COMPLETELY been absorbed, so there's no planned future surgery at this point.  Thank God!  She doesn't have to wear her skull cap anymore!  Also, at the beginning of March, she came off of ALL seizure meds.  We've noticed significant improvements in her mood and personality since coming off those medications!  She's losing a little hair around the scar area on her scalp, but you can really only tell if I'm the one responsible for combing her hair. If Liz combs it, you'll never notice it!

Right now, she's about as normal as they come, and then some.  She has 5 imaginary friends:  Lily #2, Tiny, Shiny, Don, and Buddy.  She is VERY creative and loves playing with her friends at "Grandma Janet's" (Kristen Marchiole's Mom).  She loves to draw, she loves technology, and she loves her rhino.  She says "I love you" a lot, and always follows it with "Can I Have ______?"  She's becoming very expressive and wants to know what everything means.  This week's words were "cooperation," "compromise," and "comfortable."  (Just a coincidence that they are all "C" words!)

She's trying to decide what she will be when she grows up, and we have it currently narrowed down to a: Chef Princess Gardener Paleontologist.  

We will continue the cycle of MRI's every 3 months for the next year and a half.  Our next hurdle is the ophthalmologist as we get her eye checked out.  Right now, that's the only significant issue we're having.  Before the surgery, they warned us of all of the possible complications that could result from the brain surgery, and the laundry list of issues was very overwhelming.  To be in the spot we're in now with only having nerve damage in her eye is almost a relief. We can deal with that.  She can see perfectly fine, but her eye "wanders" when she focuses, and she seems to have lost some depth perception.  Her appointment is later in April, and hopefully we'll find out more when she's examined.

I know we say this often, but it can't be said enough: Thank you for all the thoughts, prayers, and support. Thank you for loving all of us, and thank you for loving our Lily. We appreciate every single one of you...and feel so blessed to have each of you in our lives.

-Mike, Liz, and Lily (and Lily #2, Tiny, Shiny, Don, and Buddy!)  

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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Monday, March 07, 2011

Everything's cool!

We're home from today's MRI. We don't know anything yet, but they didn't come running up to talk to us before we left either...so that's a good sign. We should hear results later in the week and our clinic is scheduled for the end of the month. Whew! Glad this is over! We're enjoying Chinese food for dinner!

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Sunday, March 06, 2011

Saturday, March 05, 2011

Lady Gaga in Buffalo!


Liz and I went to see Lady Gaga last night at the HSBC Arena--incredible show!

Tuesday, March 01, 2011

Happy March!

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Monday, February 28, 2011

Lily Got to Pet A Penguin!

We went to the Aquarium of Niagara in Niagara Falls today and Lily got to go "Behind the Scenes" of the Penguin exhibit!

One of the Penguin Wranglers brought a penguin out for Lily to meet and give her an opportunity to ask questions!  She LOVED it!

The penguin didn't like me though.  It was fine with Lily giving it a little pat, but it snapped at me.  I did get to rub it's little back some...eventually!  The feathers were very smooth. I've never touched a penguin before!  We talked about it being a bird with wings but it can't fly.  The guy from the aquarium explained to Lily that it uses it's wings like flippers or fins.  Lily said, "so it can swim, right?"

She was so excited with her adventure this morning, and talked about the penguins the entire rest of our visit.  When we got to the gift shop, she looked at all of the stuffed animals, and guess what she got?

A Baby Seal.

She's a Fisher after all. Predictability isn't in her genes.

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Thursday, February 24, 2011

Monday, February 21, 2011

Love you, Grandma...




Grandma Fisher (Marguerite) passed away tonight.

Bless her heart...we love you, Grandma!


Sunday, February 13, 2011

Happy Valentine's Day!

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Tuesday, February 08, 2011

Four Years Old...


I don't know how we got here...where has the time gone?

My baby is Four Years Old tomorrow.

FOUR!

About 15 hours from right now, four years ago...I told her welcome to the world.

I'm so grateful...We're so blessed...

I love her.

Happy Birthday Lily!

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Lily's 8-Step Process...


Lily had Liz write down the following 8-Step process for making a carriage:
  1. Find a seat.
  2. Find wheels.
  3. Get babies.
  4. Find a prince.
  5. Find a queen.
  6. Find a king.
  7. Find a place to go.
  8. Get snacks.
Now you know.

Friday, January 21, 2011

Lily just did the cutest thing...

Every night, Liz and I go into Lily's room and sit with her while we say prayers.  Sometimes, Lily holds our hands, and sometimes she just giggles.  

Tonight, she fell asleep right as she laid down, so Liz and I whispered the prayers we always say.  As we were wrapping up the last prayer, Lily's little sleeping face smiled, and she opened her hand.

Liz put her finger in Lily's hand and Lily squeezed it, trying not to laugh.  She was so sleepy, and cute.

We've never been so grateful for these little moments. We cherish every one, in a way we never did before...

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Monday, January 17, 2011

Lily's Party Recap...

We had Lily's party last weekend and wanted to share some pictures. We're working on sending out personal thank you notes as well, but wanted everyone to be able to see the good time we had! We also wanted to take this opportunity to thank everyone again. We are inspired and humbled by your generosity and genuinely appreciate the love you've shown our child. We can't tell you how much easier this process has been knowing that we've had the love and support of each of you. We know that there are others that aren't as lucky, and we are so grateful to have you be beacons for us on our journey with Lily.

We hope to do more in the coming months to benefit two programs at Children's Hospital that are so supportive of us each time we have to be there: Owen's Toy Box and the Child Life Team.

Thank you again from the bottom of our hearts. We love you all!



Saturday, January 15, 2011

Aunt Ginny Would Have Loved It!

Today we said goodbye to Aunt Ginny, who passed away just before Christmas. Her memorial service was today.

Lily was a very well behaved little girl during the service, but did something really sweet that we wanted to share.

At the end of the service, when everyone was paying their respects at Ginny's urn and saying a prayer, Lily walked up and said the prayer she made up, that she says after our nightly prayers at bedtime.

She whispered to the urn, "Princess, Princess, Princess, Princess, Princess."

Ginny would have loved that.

Also, at the breakfast following the service, Ginny's daughter Laura did a really touching thing too.  Ginny was an avid reader, and Laura & her new husband Patrick had bookmarks printed for everyone, with a quote from C.S. Lewis ~~ "We read to know we are not alone."  

Very touching day...

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Saturday, January 08, 2011

Lily's Party


Lily's big party is tomorrow. We just wanted to take a moment to thank everyone for their incredible support these last six months. We still can't believe the outpouring of love and kindness both local and worldwide. We appreciate it ALL, more than any of you will ever know.

We're in a pretty good place at the moment. Just sort of playing the waiting game, again. The current MRI still showed a little anomaly, but we won't be able to tell what it is or whether it's a concern until March. So, it's not a concern until March. We're still dealing with some fluid on her scalp and we have a little nerve damage in her left eye that we'll have to have checked out. But we've been lucky and blessed and while we're still on the train--it's a more comfortable ride at the moment.

We look forward to our celebration of Lily tomorrow! And we look forward to all of you that are able to be with us...physically, and in spirit!

-Mike, Liz, and Lily



Lily's Party - special thanks to our neighbors, Paul and Nicole Blarr, who put the whole thing together in our honor. We love them like family! They ARE family!

The awesome photos are by Ali Beck at Ali Beck Photography...

Happy Birthday Siobhan!

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Santa on the FireTruck!

Every year the volunteer Fire Departments in our area host Santa on top of the Fire Engines and ride around the neighborhoods they support. (And that support them!!!) Our local Amherst Fire Department came tonight, and on Friday, we are looking forward to seeing Santa again on the Kenmore Fire Engine!

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Lily and the Singing Bears at the mall.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

Santa stopped in for a visit!!!

We were surprised tonight by a visit from Santa. He came to make sure Lily was being a good girl before he came back on Friday! Lily was THRILLED!!!





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THE DIGITAL STORY OF THE NATIVITY

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

December Lily Update...

Today was Lily's follow up appointment. We had the MRI last week, and today we saw her team of doctors.

The MRI showed the same thing as the follow up MRI immediately after surgery.  There is still a tiny little piece of something in there, but the surgeon can't say for sure whether it is tumor, scar tissue, etc.  This isn't necessarily bad news, but it wasn't the news we were hoping for either.  The doctor clarified that this soon after surgery, the MRI results are still not perfect, and that the next one in March will offer a better comparison.  For now, though, the doctors are going to continue to monitor her with frequent MRI's (every 3 months).  

We also saw the oncologist and neurologist.  They took Lily through a series of cognitive and motor tests and she seemed to be doing very well.  The neurologist is scheduling Lily for and EEG, and if the results are good, we are going to be able to wean her off of the seizure meds.  Apparently, the meds cause wild mood swings--and here I thought it was just being "3 years old."

We also will have to see an ophthalmologist as Lily's left eye seems to have some nerve damage.  She can see out of it, but it drifts, especially when she's concentrating and focused. 

All in all, not too bad.  We're dealing with peripheral issues we can LIVE with, and that's fine.

The picture is of Princess Goofball on the doc's table.  She's a nut.

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Friday, December 10, 2010

Lily plays the drums.

We are out at Goodrich Coffee with our friend Karen's band.  Lily is tearing up the drums with her on solo!

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Monday, December 06, 2010

Thursday, December 02, 2010

Today's MRI... ;-)

Lily had her MRI today and everything went fine.  We were kind of in and out of there pretty quickly.  Last time--it took all day...this time, we were done by 11:00AM and on our way home.  We don't really know anything as far as results, but are taking no news as good news.  We have another appointment in a couple of weeks to meet with all of her doctors at once to talk next steps.  We're in a pretty good place right now.  She's acting like a typical 3 year old, and pretty much bouncing off the walls about Christmas coming.  I'm including her Santa picture here that she had made while Nana TT and Paw were in town.  

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